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Ryan´s attempt to smear Yvonne isn´t juvenile, it´s the M.O. for sexual predators.They don´t take responsibility for their actions. They´re self-absorbed, control freaks. When you´re dealing with a sexual predator you´re dealing with a narcissist. The sociopath uses people as tools. That Ryan rationalizes his "victimization" is normal sociopathic behavior.Sociopaths love liberalism as it is founded on a policy of judgmental non-judgmentalism, i.e. everything goes and attempts to curtail or "judge" behavior are automatically wrong. This gives the sociopath a free hand.Swinging is a male driven sexual deviancy and should be recognized as such. There isn´t consent, but grooming. There isn´t love, but trading like you´d trade a car, sports cars, or vacation homes.
Sexual predators are master dissemblers. Being sociopaths gives them the veneer of normalcy and great charm.Ryan claims he posted to “Casual Encounters” because it could mean anything, it doesn´t "explicitly" solicit sex. Why a casual encounter could be just about anything.Yet Ryan is seeking a "like minded, committed couple". This is standard code among sexual predators and it means a man who let´s his wife out for sex - barter being the mode of exchange and each "husband" pimping his wife.Calling it consensual is a misnomer. Women trapped in this lifestyle are victims of serious mental abuse, manipulation and coercion.It is despicable to try to whitewash it into respectability.
Maybe it´s a landmark opportunity to return to the lost liberty of Freedom of Association.
There´s nothing normal about wife-swapping and no need to call it anything else. The wife functions as bait to attract a "like-minded committed" couple. Meaning a "couple" where the husband has groomed his wife into accepting sex from strangers. It´s prostitution by barter, no cash need change hands.If there´s no shame in it let Jim and Lynette show their faces. If it is normal and acceptable to all, excepting those few, small-minded folks, people may respond by hiring the Ryan´s in a show of camaraderie. I cannot wait to hear Lynette explain just how liberating this lifestyle is. How she´s just not satisfied with sex from Jim and... isn´t it obvious that this is deviancy? Is this a lifestyle a mother or father would wish on their daughter?If they were concerned about their privacy they´d just have sex between themselves keeping it within the circle of their marriage - whoops, did I just describe traditional marriage?.
The Ryans’ sexual activity is no big deal. We´re all mature, consenting adults, no?How come Ms. Ryan isn´t quoted defending this innocuous lifestyle? If it´s not a big deal, why does Ryan hide his face? If it´s normal why be ashamed?It would be bigoted to think that the swinger lifestyle is made up of low self-esteem women and lecherous men, right?
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