Please stop enticing or “leading on” older men when you know you are
clearly leading them on, usually for the purpose of having someone buy you
drinks. I date younger women all the time, generally at least half my age.
What I find hypocritical about younger women complaining about older men is
this, if you think he is hot, you will date him (regardless of age). If he
has something you want, generally money, you will date him (regardless of
age). Casual conversation does not constitute "hitting on you", nor does a
casual glance or smile in your direction. If you think someone is looking
at you like a "piece of meat" then that is in your head and your issue (and
don’t tell me you have never leered at some man's butt or other body part).
If you dress like a tramp, you will be treated like a tramp; if I wear a
cape does that mean I can fly? And last and most important of all, in 10 or
20 years, you will looking at the 20 something guys in a bar and hitting on
them and laughing about it and calling yourself a cougar (yes, you will!)