Bloglander

Stop it! I can't remember how many times I've wasted time and money going
or trying to go out with a woman who isn't the least bit interested in me,
but won't say anything just to spare my feelings. Just say what you think
so I don't go on and on for weeks putting energy into something that just
isn't going to happen. No relationship? Fine, heard the words before, no
big deal. And no, I don't want to be your friend, I'm not a good listener,
and I'm not a nice guy. (I actually didn't hear a word said - I've been too
busy staring at your breasts.)